American researchers spoke about the benefits of family quarrels between a man and a woman, but they are useful under one condition
American psychologists from the University of Arizona figured out how to reaction to situations that provoke anger related to health.
The results of the study, which lasted 32 years, published in the journal Psychosomatic Medicine. It was attended by 194 couples.
Statistics show that the more partners kept your anger in family quarrels, the less lived, often ill and quickly died. In this case, “inferior” men to suffer almost 2 times more often than “reserved” women.
Situation when spouses co-exist peacefully, and not angry at each other, scientists didn’t count. Reactions of spouses may differ: one can easily throw a tantrum, others suppressed their anger. But when a couple reacted differently to the problems, then it was bad for health.
Experts are convinced: the key to health and longevity — correct argument. But they become correct when both parties — the husband and the wife quarrel about with the same intensity. That is, symmetrically to answer the arguments of the other side, not suppress your anger is more likely to come to reconciliation.
In other words, in family life “a good scandal is better than bad in the world,” in physics is “the action must be equal and opposite reaction”.
The researchers concluded that quarrels between the spouses must be on the same emotional level, in this case, they will help longevity.
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Experts came to the conclusion that social exclusion leads to a significant reduction in the level of human intelligence. Moreover, loneliness makes people more aggressive. Scientists believe that intelligence may have evolved primarily to facilitate social relations.
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